Vivace Maxvictor Speaker & Experienced Life CoachÂ
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Iâm Vivace Maxvictor: Your Secret Weapon for Success
WelcomeâIâm here to help you conquer your challenges and live your best life!
If youâre looking for a quick glimpse into who I am and what my coaching is about, hereâs the essence of my story and expertise:
About MeâAt a Glance
From a turbulent start in Iran, through a career in medicine, to becoming a powerhouse life coach, Iâve spent my life turning adversity into strength. My high-performance training as a Surgical PA, 13+ years of coaching experience, and over 9,000 one-on-one coaching calls have given me a rare combination of precision, insight, and emotional intelligence that allows me to empower high achievers to break through limiting beliefs, gain unshakeable confidence, and unlock lasting success.
My StoryâThe Full Journey
For those who want to dive deeper, hereâs the unfiltered story behind my journeyâfrom growing up in a place of conflict to building a life dedicated to transforming others. This is the good, the bad, and the incredible transformation that brought me here.
Why I Felt Safer Outdoors With The Gunmen
I was born and raised in Iran. Men with machine guns stood outside the front door of our home. This was a chilling reminder of the danger that surrounded us.
Ironically, I felt safer outdoors with the gunmen than I did indoors with my father. I felt if I didnât provoke the gunmen, I would be okay. But my father was unpredictable, and I never knew when he would erupt. What was more terrifying to me than the Islamic regime was my father's regime. I never felt safe.
I Escaped One Nightmare, Yet Still Trapped by Another
Ultimately, my family and I escaped Iran amid the hostile takeover following the Iranian Revolution. We first moved to London and then settled in the United States, hoping for safety and a new beginning.
But sadly, I could not escape my father until I was 12 years old.
I Lived In A Constant State Of Fear And Anxiety
For the first 12 years of my life, I grew up in a household marked by extreme domestic violence. My father would senselessly beat my mother and threaten to kill her right in front of us.
I endured many forms of abuse myself, each leaving deep scars. I lived in constant fear and anxiety, always bracing for the next verbal or physical attack. I was told things no child should ever have to hear.
Emotional Intelligence: The Ultimate Edge in Business & Life
This turbulent upbringing didnât just shape me; it ignited a fierce drive to turn my pain into powerâand to help others do the same. My experiences have given me a deep understanding of fear, courage, and resilience, allowing me to connect with my clients on a profound level as they work through their own complex emotions.
You Are Not Alone. Whatever youâve been through, you donât have to face it alone. Iâm here to help you confront your fears and transform your insecurities into unshakeable self-worth. So, you can finally live the life you were born to live. Because Self Confidence doesnât ask for permission- it takes the throne.
How Trauma Shaped My Identity
This chronic trauma didnât just shatter my sense of safety; it damaged my self worth and self confidence. Constant worry, fear, anxiety, shame, insecurity, and powerlessness became the foundation of my identity. Fear-based programming embedded itself into my nervous system, influencing many of my choices later in life.
As a coach, I recognize that fear-based programming can affect anyone, regardless of their background. If you're tired of making fear-based decisions and playing small, I will help you cultivate deep self-worth so you can powerfully pursue your true desires.
Back to my storyâŠ
I Preferred To Be Homeless Than To Stay With My Father
A month before my 12th birthday, my father violently assaulted my mother again. This time, she decided to leave him. My father gave my brothers and me an ultimatum: whoever stayed with him would get everything, and whoever left with my mother would get nothing. I decided to leave with my mother, and we became homeless.
While it was devastating to be homeless in a foreign country, we felt a deep relief at escaping the belly of the beast. With nowhere to live, a few weeks later, we moved to New York to stay with my uncle in his one-bedroom apartment in Queens. (Click Here To Watch My Full Story)[ GD- Have it scroll to video at the bottom of this page]
This drastic turn of events marked the beginning of a new chapter in my life, but the mental and emotional scars of my past remained.
Fast forward⊠I skipped a grade and started college at 17.
Achievement Became My Prison
Because I had never felt valued, I hadnât learned to value myself or my feelings. I never stopped to think about what I truly wantedâI treated myself like a robot on autopilot. My sense of worth was inextricably tied to external achievements. So, I did what was expected in my family and culture: I earned a Bachelorâs and a Masterâs in Biology, and graduated from Cornell Medical School as a Surgical PA.
The truth is, my familyâs expectations (aka brainwashing & programming) pushed me into a medical career that I deeply resented. I felt trappedânot just by the career I didnât want, but by the massive student loans I had accumulated along the way.
I know how it feels to climb the ladder of success, only to reach the top and realize, âThis isnât it.â Itâs frustrating beyond words when youâre driven to achieve so much more, yet you feel stuckâor worse, trapped in golden handcuffs.
Success In Medicine Felt Like Failure
Despite years of success as a Surgical PA, I constantly felt like an underachiever. No matter how much I achieved, I just didnât feel good enough. I felt like a loser.
I've learned that it's impossible to feel like a winner when youâre betraying your own soul.
The Devastating Cost of Ignoring My Own Needs to Prioritize Others
Working in the medical field provided little fulfillment and, instead, deeply eroded my sense of self-worth. For years, I dedicated myself to my surgical patients with unwavering commitment, all while willfully shutting down my own emotional needs. I could have earned a gold medal in the âMartyr OlympicsââI truly believed that sacrificing myself in service to others was noble.
But my dedication to everyone elseâs well-being came at a devastating personal cost.
Hitting Rock Bottom: How I Overcame my Darkest Moments
Unfortunately, during this time, I was drugged and raped. My cup of trauma runneth over.
The compounded pain of 12 years of domestic violence and abuse, deep-seated feelings of insecurity and inferiority, being drugged and raped as an adult, working grueling hours in a medical career I hated, and years of ignoring my own wants and needs led me to a dark place where I contemplated suicide.
I even picked my own âexpiration date.â
At the 11th hour, I decided to get help. (Scroll to the bottom of this page to watch my story).Â
Why Therapy Failed Me
When I finally decided to get help, I went all in. Despite seeing different therapists, I felt that none of them truly understood me. It was draining and demoralizing to keep recounting the same stories to different practitioners, hoping someone could help me escape my pain and inner conflict.
Finding the right help felt like a battle of its own â it was exhausting, expensive, and disheartening. Many practitioners seemed more interested in hearing my stories than in helping me move forward. I needed someone who was results-focused, not story-focused.
Now, when my clients say, "Iâm so glad I found you," I deeply appreciate the significance of those words.
The Turning Point: From Pain to Empowerment
After investing substantial time, energy, and resources into countless healing modalitiesâfrom therapy and self-help programs to deep introspectionâI finally found my way out of the darkness. Through this journey, I learned many things, but one truth stood out: to heal, I had to speak my truth, live my truth, and stop covering up for other peopleâs bad behavior.
Self Worth Set Me Free
The more I healed, the more I valued myselfâand the clearer I became on what I genuinely wanted from life. With this new lease on life, I was determined to pursue work that felt meaningful and rewarding to me.
I had always been passionate about personal development. By this point, I had read hundreds of books and attended countless seminars that nurtured my spirit. Personal development felt authentic and right.
So, in September 2011, I made one of the biggest decisions of my lifeâI walked away from my medical career to become a Life Coach. I was driven by a mission: to do what I love while helping others avoid the suffering I had endured.
The Catalyst: How One Client Transformed My Coaching Career
My coaching career began with small seminars in New York City, where I drew in crowds with free tickets.
It was during one of these seminars in 2012 that I met Lisa, Karen, and Jordanâthree clients whose rapid success in real estate marked a turning point for me. Their manager, Jeff, noticed their sudden income surge and asked what had changed.
When they credited their results to coaching with me, Jeff invited me to present at his office, where he co-managed 300 agents.
There, I shared tools and strategies to help agents crush limiting beliefs, conquer self-doubt, earn more, attract meaningful relationships, and boost self-confidence.
To my surprise, a wave of agents signed up for my coaching on the spot. Jeff, a seasoned manager with decades of NYC real estate experience, not only became my client but my greatest advocate.
Jeff introduced and endorsed me to the who's who in New York real estate, catapulting my career to new heights.
From Stages to TV: How I Became the Authority in Confidence Coaching
Soon, I found myself presenting at the most elite firms in New York City and coaching high achievers. This not only solidified my reputation but also allowed me to expand my influence in ways I had never imagined.
I was invited to speak on various panels about the power of self-confidence and, eventually, was featured on shows like Bravoâs Million Dollar Listing New York and Netflixâs Buying Beverly Hills. along with appearances on multiple news stations, where I shared insights on healing, mindset transformation, and achieving personal and business growth.
These experiences elevated my brand and fueled my passion to empower others. They also proved that, no matter how deeply ingrained our early programming and conditioning may be, we can rise to extraordinary success.
Medical Expertise Meets High-Performance Coaching: How My Medical Training Drives Faster, Better Results
For a long time, I tormented myself, thinking I had âwastedâ years of my life as a Surgical PA. But Iâve come to realize that experience became the foundation of my success as a Life Coach, equipping me with skills that few can offer.
My âWax On, Wax Offâ Training Prepared Me for Transformational Coaching
In hindsight, my medical career was my âwax on, wax offâ training, preparing me to become a powerhouse in coaching. Working as a Surgical PAâboth inside and outside the operating roomârequired me to think critically, prioritize swiftly, adapt to unpredictable situations, and make split-second decisions.
Emotional Intelligence Facilitates Powerful Transformation
My years in medicine allowed me to connect with people in their most vulnerable moments, understand their fears, and make them feel truly seen, heard, and cared for. Working closely with patients cultivated a profound emotional intelligence, enabling me to address not only their medical needs but also their emotional and spiritual well-being. This ability to connect quickly and deeply is now central to my coaching practice, facilitating powerful transformations for my clients.
My Intuition + Critical Thinking = Your Personal & Professional Success
My rigorous medical training also sharpened my instincts and critical thinking, giving me a competitive advantage in coaching. With this unique blend of intuition and critical thinking, I can quickly identify your limiting beliefs and self-worth challenges. Clients often tell me that no other type of coaching comes close to what I offer and that my coaching has literally changed their lives. I still receive thank you messages from people I coached years agoâa testament to the lasting impact of our work together. From there, I create a personalized roadmap to help you overcome obstacles, accelerating your journey to both personal and professional success.
Fierce Self Confidence Coaching: Precise, Substantive & TransformativeÂ
In a coaching landscape filled with surface-level hype and fluff, my medical training provides a level of precision, insight, and depth thatâs rare and often unmatched. I focus on uncovering and addressing the root cause of your challengesânot just treating symptoms or slapping bandaids on arteries. If you're looking for coaching thatâs as substantive as it is transformative, let's work together to create lasting change.
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Rewire Your Brain for Success: The Science Behind Lasting Transformation
My scientific background and deep understanding of neural plasticity empower me to guide you in rewiring your brain for sustained success.
Knowing how the brain operates doesnât just make coaching more effective; it elevates the entire experience into a journey of transformation.
With this mindset reprogramming, youâll not only build self-confidence but cultivate a resilient, powerful identityâunlocking unprecedented success in every area of your life.
Tired of Feeling Stuck? Let Me Show You the WayâProven Success for Over 13 Years!
For over 13 years, I've guided incredible humans to break free from feeling stuck. With more than 9,000 one-on-one coaching calls under my belt, Iâve helped people worldwide unlock their potential.
I've had the joy of coaching TV reality stars like Tyler Whitman and Kirsten Jordan from Million Dollar Listing New York, Alexia Umansky and Sonika Vaid from Buying Beverly Hills, and Chloe Tucker Caine and Jade Shenker from Owning Manhattan.
Iâve also shared my insights on networks, analyzing high-profile figures like Brad Pitt, Angelina Jolie, Simone Biles, Tom Brady, Alec Baldwin, Joe Rogan, and more.
Now, Iâm thrilled to extend my expertise to you. Together, weâll work towards your personal and business goals, building a life where you thrive with self-love, self-trust, and unstoppable confidence.
The truth isâŠ
Low Self Confidence is The Real Villain Blocking Your Path to Power and Profit
And hereâs the good news: Iâll help you kick self-doubt to the curb!
I know firsthand that the struggles you've faced can become your greatest strengths. Together, we'll transform every setback into fuel for your success.
Itâs Time To Transform Your Pain Into Power & Profit
If I could rise from feeling broken, abused, homeless, and suicidal to becoming a powerhouse, I can help you turn your mental roadblocks into power and profit. Iâm here to help you crush your limiting beliefs and conquer self-doubt. Together, weâll pave the way for you to make more money, attract meaningful relationships, and experience a level of personal pride and freedom youâve never felt beforeâall while feeling Confident AF.
My clients often say they knew from our very first conversation that I was the coach theyâd been searching for. I look forward to our first conversationâapparently, itâs all the rage! Iâm excited to make a profound impact on your life.
Limited Availability: This Could Be Your Last Chance to Work With Me!
As my schedule tightens and my business expands, I may soon transition to accepting new clients by referral onlyâfrom those Iâve previously worked with. This could mean closing public access to my coaching services entirely.
So, trust your instincts. If something is telling you that Iâm the right coach for you, donât waitâdonât let this opportunity slip through your fingers. Click the link below to apply for your free VIP Session.
If youâre ready to break through your limiting beliefs, silence self-doubt, and step into the life you deserve, the time is NOW!
Watch My Story -Self Confidence After Trauma
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